An international resident recently flew 8,500 kilometers to get married, showcasing the compelling reasons why many foreigners choose getting married abroad rather than facing Germany’s complex bureaucracy.
This extensive journey spanned eight time zones. The decision initially aimed to avoid a large, costly, or complicated wedding locally. However, marrying within Germany proved to be nearly impossible for the couple.
German marriage processes for non-nationals often present significant obstacles. One reporter called it “the final boss” of German bureaucracy. Therefore, many international couples find themselves looking for alternatives.
Firstly, language poses a major hurdle. All official civil ceremonies in Germany require German. Couples with limited German skills must hire an official interpreter. Witnesses, if present, also need a full understanding of the proceedings. A previous incident even saw a ceremony nearly halted because a witness asked a simple question in English.
Secondly, gathering the necessary paperwork presents its own challenges. Most foreigners require an array of documents, including a recent registration certificate and a certificate of no impediment to marriage. Each document typically needs official translation and notarization. Securing all these papers and their certified translations within tight deadlines often proves difficult.
Finally, obtaining an appointment adds another layer of complexity. Couples first need an appointment to file their intent to marry. After approval, they have a six-month window to hold the actual ceremony. Finding a suitable ceremony slot within this period, especially in larger cities like Berlin, can be very tough. While files can be transferred to less busy rural offices, the initial submission must occur in the couple’s district of residence.
Given these difficulties, many couples, including the author, opt for getting married abroad. Denmark, for instance, offers a remarkably streamlined process. The entire Danish procedure can often be completed within a few weeks. Furthermore, Danish marriage certificates are available in German, saving extra translation costs when registering the marriage back in Germany. This proximity and efficiency make it a popular choice for many.
Upon returning to Germany, the newlywed will still need to register their foreign marriage. This involves at least one trip to a local registry office. Ultimately, the desire for a simple ceremony with family led to an international wedding. This choice highlights the ongoing struggle many expatriates face with German administrative processes.
